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http://www.boh3m3.net !!!UPDATED!!! Just to be clear, I'm not gay bashing. I would have felt the same way if a straight person had been yelling about cunnilingus with such vivid imagery. -Added on 8/6/07- So the response to this has been more than a little interesting. By and large it seems like people enjoyed the video, and for that I am happy. It's also nice to see people who identify themselves as gay understanding the nature of this video, and not jumping to conclusions like some commenters as well as a few of the people responding by video. I thought I should clarify a few assumptions people seem to have. The first and most talked about one seems to be something to the effect of "this is homophobic, it's attacking the whole gay community." To respond to this, I will use the Taco Bell Dog defense. When the Taco Bell Dog came onto the scene it was a huge success. It was whimsical, to the point, and stood out [and stuck] in people's minds. HOWEVER, a group of Latin Americans took the dog as an ethnic stereotype and demanded it be taken down as it was deemed by them "offensive". The Taco Bell Dog wasn't representing an ethnic group. It was representing the company. But these people ASSUMED it was the case, and so raised a big nasty stink about it. So it seems a similar, if smaller, situation is arising here. A lot of you guys seem to think that I view this man as a representative of the gay community, or that I am directing my thoughts at the community itself. Oh come ON. For fuck's sake people I'm talking to one random dude who pissed me off. I will not be held responsible for you identifying with his behavior and taking offense. I will also not be apologizing for your inability to get over yourself for five minutes and laugh at something that is [contrary to your assumptions] no more than the rantings of a pissed off waiter. Still others think that I should have told the man to quiet down, or asked him to leave. Perhaps this is my fault for saying "my restaurant." Perhaps a more accurate description would be "the restaurant I work at." I have no power, people. In fact, the role of a server necessitates taking crap from people on a daily basis in order to possibly get a few dollars more than you would otherwise. People's opinion of you more often than not greatly affects YOUR TIP. I've seen many times when someone is asked to quiet down some people tend to get more pronounced in their actions, usually in defiance of perceived "censorship". You see this almost every day here on youtube when a user gets butt-hurt that his comment was removed. To deal with that in person, AND to have that person decide how much money you will get is not something I'm prepared to do. I'm a fat guy, kids. I need to eat. I should probably eat less, but I think you get my drift. That being said, please get over yourselves and have a laugh. This guy will probably never see this video, and you will never see this guy. Relax and crack a smile, or don't and just leave.(Less)